January 3, 2012JT,
I have been married for 38 years and that is not where my heart is. We pretty much just share the same house, and she spends all of my money. But now she is giving me a hard time because I told her about my friend Bev ,the one I ride with all the time. Bev is wanting a more permanent kind of arrangement, and my wife is talking about leaving and splitting things up. I will come out the loser in a split, so that is where I am at, trying to decide what is the best for me.
I have been pretty miserable living here for several years, but I do not want to give up everything I worked for all my life, and the comfortable life that I have now.